Prep for Balls/galas/charity events-

Think about it if we had consistent events that we had to go to several times a month it may be something my clients dread instead and enjoy. My job here is to set up the clothing, hair appointments, nail appointments, transportation and any other details they need to be attended to in order to prepare for the event. this is me making this process easy for my clients.

Car maintenance-

How much do you love getting tire rotations, alignments, breaks, new tires, windshield wipers, oil changes, differential fluid exchange, and all the really fun stuff associated with maintaining your vehicles?

Yeah, not too much that’s what I thought.

This is something I do for my clients usually when they’re not home so that several cars of theirs stay maintained on a rotating schedule, without them lifting a finger.

Wouldn’t this be amazing? I know I would love that. Everyone that works for The Millionaire’s assistant has full coverage auto insurance and a clean driving record so you don’t have to worry about the liability aspect of having your cars taken care of.

Helping team Members in the house-

I help my clients manage their people. How often do you have time when hiring a new person to run your home and life get set up/ on-boarded? Not a lot.

I  have created ads and hired house help/people before. I  help create a household manual, meet new house helpers to explain what is expected of them, and how each thing needs to be completed (if my client is very particular). I  set up NDA, 1099 forms, employee manuals, or anything my client needs during the on-boarding process.

Event planning-

Event planning as another pain the butt that most people don’t have time to deal with. There are many moving parts such as food, party equipment rentals, entertainment booking, valet, beverage service, and much more! I  can help coordinate these things to make your life less stressful.

Taking out the dog-

Sort of self explanatory-but I  can help make sure your pet is let out/ taken care of when you away or busy! Cant neglect those family members. I  can even make sure they are taken cute of when you leave town. I  can’t tell you how many times in the hubbub of packing, getting tickets, and the general chaos of preparing for a trip the family pet care becomes an extra stress on us. NOT ANYMORE!

Trip planning-

What is more stressful than trying to find flights, transportation, accommodations, dinner reservations, fun activities, and more? How would you like all these things taken care of for you? YEA THATS WHAT I  THOUGHT.

JUST SAY YES to LESS stress.

Organizing your closet-

How often do you have no idea what you have in your closet? Your stuff is just swimming around in your drawers?

Folded laundry doesn’t make it to a place where you know you can count on a folded pair of jeans/the right top hung with no wrinkles?

Not very often if you are my average client. I  can make sure with regular checks the closet organization systems I  implement to save time are always functioning! My methods are teachable as well!

Paying bills-

If you have certain bills that you prefer to be paid by a real person like payroll, paying contractors, invoice payments and similar my team can help lighten your load and give you a Friday back! Doesn’t that sound delightful?!

Schedule planning and finding efficiencies-

A big strength we have is to help you manage your schedule and add/delete appointments/ set confirmations etc. never miss an appointment again or get distracted because your time isn’t block-schedule managed.

Checking tax/accounting information for a business-

Taking the time to gather tons of pieces of information from past transactions takes a lot of time. If you have somebody to help with this then you can continue working and still have this done without spending your time and therefore money.

Entering receipts for business versus personal expenses- pretty self-explanatory.

Preparing for an audit-

Obviously, this is a huge undertaking, but you have somebody now who can help you prepare documents, gather information, organize all of it and save you the stress.

Managing air b and b –

This is another hot item I see a lot of entrepreneurs especially property owners taking advantage of for extra income. There are parts to this that can cause stress and add pressure to a busy schedule. Finding a good housekeeper, getting them on a rotation with the rentals, having a household manual and adding certain personal touches like leaving some wine and a thank you note to your guest are just a few of the things that The Millionaires Assistant can help with.

Getting property information-

Luck would be that on our team we have a real estate agent. Therefore we have the ability to gather property information if you’re looking for investment property or seeking out land for a project, we can connect you with anything you need in the real estate world.

Bring medication to their parents-

This is something that we have been able to do on a very rare occasion, but it’s something that is often overlooked. We have aging parents who need a little extra care but don’t want a stranger in their home, for to be relocated to a new place just yet, having a personal assistant who can come help administer medication run a few errands helps to make our parents feel like they’re still independent, and still get enjoy the privacy of their home.

Much more just ask!

“MY WHY-the universal connector”

last night I had my vision boarding event and I was able to connect with awesome people who really want better things in their life. It was really inspiring to me to see their excitement as we shared ideas, goals, struggles, and Things we have in common.

The atmosphere Felt very open and that feels just right.  I can tell the people that I attracted to my event where exactly who I needed yesterday. I’m hoping that I was who they needed yesterday. We know everything in life is about timing, so after a little bit of time feeling disconnected from some female friends in my life, I needed the companionship and support of those who came to my event!

I LOVE BUILDING A common bond with those who I surround myself with!

This morning as I write this I feel prompted to tell my “WHY”

I WANT EVERYONE TO BE CLEAR that this is why I give free advice, have paid events, do live videos, make educational material and so on.

I have felt empowered and more focused the EVER before since I figured out my “Why”…

I am going to tell you a story of how I got to my why before telling you the actual “why”. I want everyone to understand how I got to this place because so many have no idea what their true meaning in life is, or what they are on planet earth to do.

I didn’t know till under a year ago! This is a recent shift and I couldn’t be happier since.

So in October sitting in a conference with some pretty powerful speakers, I was hit- BAM- right in the face with someone speaking directly to my soul.

I have always felt trapped by employers forcing me to be their company culture, to be what and where they want me to be, not training me properly, not taking a deep enough assessment of who I am as a person to understand my needs, and in general using me for my time/youth/hard work in exchange for nothing that is life-long or lasting. TOTAL and complete BULLSHIT. I WAS NEVER HAPPY WITH THIS, but like most people, you don’t know that there are different options out there and so you stick with what you know-always being there for someone but no one is there for you.

At this conference what was said was an exercise to find your purpose. The speaker was a beautiful, actually intimidating (to me) woman who was so confident I couldn’t help but to listen…



THINK- about a time where your mind and goals were un-adulterated- before you thought you HADa to be a lawyer, doctor, accountant, or another defined path-she said.

FEEL-in that moment or at that age what you MOST enjoyed or KNEW you were really good at-she said.

I was able to do this on a deeper level than ever before. I IMMEDIATELY REMEMBERED a trip I took at about 5-6 yo. to Disneyworld with my family. I had to sit in a row far away by myself but guess what I was doing??!?!

I was turned around in my seat-before take off mind you- talking to the couple behind me. I SIMPLY ASKED “where are you going? I’m going to Disneyworld for my first time and I’m really excited! Are you going?”

All I wanted to do was to connect to another person and to find out what we had in common. I have always been GREAT the finding friends or kindred soul because I am the UNIVERSAL connector!

The purpose in this is to know what you are the best at NATURALLY. You always knew you were good at whatever it was in simpler times, but the world has made you bury it.

My next thought was how can I take my organizing business (I love to organize), and then help others to listen to my struggles, successes, and what I’ve learned from them to help them better their lives? It was clear that I needed to show people how to organize their whole life and to be clear on their goals in order to meet them and be satisfied.

For me, I have felt major empowerment since I have been able to have financial independence and emotional independence.

This alone helps me control my emotions every day so I can CHOOSE to be happy. No more letting others decide my happiness, no more letting others who are cheats an liars into my life, no more waiting on someones approval before I can be happy or do certain things I need to be happy.

I want to share this with others. Once you are independent in these ways you will attract someone or people into your life who just add /are the cherry on top to your already grounded self!

My “why” is to connect people to help them get to a place of financial and emotional independence. T feel like they are not alone in their struggles and successes.

i want everyone to know whatever they dream or envision for their future is possible-but you have to surround yourself with those who support you and want these things for themselves.

Stop self-limiting. Believe in the things you FEEL called to do. Do not WORRY ABOUT WHAT OTHER PEOPLE THINK about what you feel called to do. Fuck ‘em! YOU GET ONE LIFE. Do not ever forget this.

Today is the day is the dayyy!!

I am so excited to have my first in-person event today! In a moment I’m going to go to the store and grab some champagne, plastic glasses, tape, glue, some cork boards, more pictures, I’ll do a live video, and pick a decent outfit for when I do my awesome presentation (lol).

I have also decided in the last week for all those people who cannot attend in-person, I can work out a prerecorded option because I think that no one should miss out on this type of event. I can’t tell you how many times I personally have thought about vision boarding, then forgot about it because I get so busy with all the other crap I have to do. Something somehow brings it back into my life And back to my attention.

Most recently what push this back into my life was somebody I connected with on social media who is retiring in his mid-30s. I immediately wanted to ask this person how they did it?! Isn’t that the end game but we all want to have financial freedom an independence? To retire at a young age and not be slaves for the rest of our lives?

Well, that’s for sure what I want and where I want to be. I have to learn from those around me to have already achieved these things. Luckily for me this person graciously answered my question and told me to a game changer for them wasn’t vision boarding in looking at these things they want every single day. That got me excited about vision boarding again! Also realizing that the types of entrepreneurs I work with may have a game plan for their quarterly goals and a vision in general speak of where they want to be in the future, but they don’t have a stepwise plan, or they let things get in the way of checking out the vision board every day. For me, I was 100% committed to it but was lying to myself because I didn’t actually do the work to create this thing. I decided if I was going to share this awesome message with other people that I needed to do it myself and be an example.

Well I did it I created a vision board, and there are a few things missing-which I can obviously change over time when I become more clear about what those goals are. But for now, it is done. Like Grant Cardone says- massive in perfect action! All day!

I live and breathe by this every time I have resistance to not finish something that I think will not be adequate. This is because I know part of the reason I doubt what I produced is because of self-doubt. I realized that there’s no reason to doubt my abilities to do things and that if I do this I miss out on so much that I could have or be.

I’m very excited to bring people together who have similar goals and a similar path that they want to be on. It helps people to network with someone that may change their life. This is happened to me countless times networking because I want to learn and get better.

For those people out there who are similar to me, they will love any event that I put on and show up as enthusiastically as I do! Any opportunity to get better is awesome!!!!!

If you cannot make this event all you have to do is ask me for another option and I will set up another way that works for you to get this content, in a way that makes it easy.

*****Calling all like minded-goal driven entrepreneurs there is a Place for you to be able to surround yourself with those who are headed in the same direction.

Here’s an opportunity to grow your business and to surround yourself with people you want to become.

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So I did it!

I did the thing

I finished my vision board!

I’m so excited about it I will share an image with so you can see how I went about doing it!

I’m also extremely excited because on Wednesday this week I will be getting together with a select group of friends who want to be serious about getting their vision board done.

The Event is going to be awesome!

We’re going to start with an exercise to bring forth emotion into our goal setting practices. This allows us to connect with our goals on a deeper level. This helps us to become attached to our goals and to hold these goals as important priorities.

The second thing we will do is talk about manifestation. We will talk about how powerful this practice is when used on a daily or consistent basis.

I want everyone in the room to share stories of how they practice this in their life, and what has resulted from it. I want each and every person that attends to understand the real impact that our energy has on the energy of the world. This is basically talking about the law of attraction.

I will be bringing supplies for all those who sign-up and pay before the event starts. I will also be giving a complementary CHAMPAGNE TOAST near the conclusion of our hour together!!!

Needless to say, I’m excited to build more deep and meaningful relationships and help others to meet other people who have similar goals.

Why do I keep repeating that we need to surround ourselves those we want to become? Because it will get us there faster!! We all want faster results!

Personally for me if I spend time with people who have no idea what their direction in life is or what they want I do not spend my time getting close/deep with these people. I find that if they make a mistake or come across certain hardships in their life the way that they handle these things never changes. This is because they have not taken time to do a self-inventory to know what they want. Without having a direction you have no benchmark to know if the things you’re doing are going to get you where out want to be or not.





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Next level version of you!!

It’s Thursday morning and all I’m thinking about today is building my business.

Yesterday had a conversation with somebody about changing my business from a sole proprietorship To S Corporation or a series LLC.

The same person I was having a conversation about needing a chief financial officer for my company. I was essentially interviewing them.

And it dawned on me that THIS is for real. This it. This is my life. I am creating everything  I do and have. I AM RESPONSIBLE. I AM A BOSS. I AM THE SOLE OWNER OF ANYTHING I DO! This means I own my failures, success, ideas, effort, mistakes, shortcomings, and ability to change other peoples lives.

See There’s always been a sense of doubt that is projected onto me by people because they don’t know my abilities or my fighting spirit. When you hear this enough times the idea gets planted in your head. I don’t fully believe that I can’t do something I want, but that self-doubt is always there. I realized that a portion of this self-doubt is based on who I surround myself with. Now that I have been changing everybody that I surround myself with I find myself making leaps and bounds into a direction that I have never been in before. Like I said it just dawned on me that it is happening NOW.

This is a little bit scary at first because it’s uncharted territory. But I have to remind myself it’s going to be okay because I’m surrounded by people who care about me, want to see me succeed, and for the most part, have already achieved what I want to achieve. All I have to do is look around me and ask if I feel like I’m lost or scared.

I realize that surrounding myself with good people isn’t just something I have to do in life.. it’s something I have to do in my business every day to get where want to be. For example, I know that I have driving ambition and I am proactive, but I need a completely different person for Business development and finding opportunities.

Knowing where I lack and giving that to people who are better at these things and me I think is a strength.

I have started one private group full of entrepreneurs headed in the same direction to be able to bounce ideas off of and to share what I’m struggling with. This helps not listening to only one person, but to get your perspective based on other people’s experiences.

I’ve never been one to blindly listen to one person or follow one person. I don’t do well under control, or being told what I should do. I also don’t believe in treating other people this way. Getting people resources, motivation, and examples of how the right actions get you positive results.

If this and of itself is not enough to motivate somebody, I’m not going to spend my time to force someone to do what they don’t want to do on their own.

But I feel it is my mission to be a leader and an example to others of how they can have financial, emotional, spiritual, and more kinds of freedom/ independence.

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EXCUSES And Ridiculous Embarrassing Resistance!!

I usually formally go downstairs set up my laptop and start to enter into my journal.

This could have been why I haven’t done it in a week.

Too much of a formal process.

I’m in bed right now writing on my notepad in between snoozing.

Major self-care this week I haven’t done the best at. This usually has been massages/baths/ sleeping enough… I can feel the toll on my productivity without these things.

Usually, I’m very productive and when I have extra time I don’t mind at all doing extra work to promote my content or make programs who help people find me. This week I haven’t taken care of me enough.

Self-care is a very important part of being a business owner/visionary!!

My creative mind is closed when I don’t have the mental energy to invest in myself.

I have a made a vow over the weekend working with my mentor to take a full day off once per week- that will be my Sunday.

I realize how important it is to RECHARGE. What this is also teaching me is I need bots to text for me or I can’t do this. I only have so much time, so it’s important to use it to make money but also to recharge. (If you can do this message me)!!

It took me a few days to finally Force myself into getting enough rest the once I finally did it last night I have no problem getting up and journaling today! This bitch is back!

And you know what’s funny, is that when something needs to happen it continues to show up in your life!
I was able to meet with someone last night with no agenda, and a conversation turned into discussing how it is important to have rest. She is a very firm believer of God and very God-fearing so she put my thoughts into a different context yet with the same message… that the Lord had put the Sabbath as a day of rest for all people to be able to recharge and make their bodies and minds ready for the week. People have had to work since the dawn of time, so this thought that I have is nothing new.

I have had a lot of resistance writing in my blog and journaling in the morning because I have been so tired, and as I catch up on sleep the same topic keeps popping up reminding me that I can’t keep blowing off the things that are going to make me a better person and have a better quality of life!

Having the life that you want takes work. It’s not given to you have to earn it. When I’m feeling tired I feel lazy and make excuses so obviously I need to fix a certain part of this equation to continue onto my best life that I want.

Can you think of a time or a consistent feeling/ situation in your week which causes you to feel resistance to the thing you know you need to do to create a better life?

Typically when these pop up in peoples lives they use them to make excuses as to why they don’t achieve the short-term and long-term goals that they set for themselves.

The actual situations are not the dealbreaker it’s the fact that you’re choosing to not deal with the problems that are causing the resistance.

I had to buckle up and think deeply about why I’m not getting my journaling done. I realized it was due to the fact that when I don’t sleep enough, I don’t have the energy to be creative and to kick ass.

It took me a few days to realize this, and obviously, something has to change.

You’re not alone in your journey, you don’t have to fight these challenges alone.. I reached out to my group of elite efficient family members for solutions on how to sleep faster and how to sleep longer. I ended up having a couple members of the group reach out to me and remind me to go to bed at a certain time. I also made reminders in my phone and alerts to Force me to remember that my bedtime is coming up, and it was time to start winding down and shutting things off.

Without other people’s support, I wouldn’t be headed in the direction I am. So don’t be afraid to reach out to other people for accountability because it really does make a difference.

If you want to achieve your goals it’s always helpful to have people around you who want to see you succeed. If you are in need of this like I was, and I have a something that will help you.

Calling all like minded-goal driven entrepreneurs there is a Place for you to be able to surround yourself with those who are headed in the same direction.

Here’s an opportunity to grow your business and to surround yourself with people you want to become.

I  have a private group filled with these people who bounce ideas off of each other, swap referrals and provide a safe place for you to discuss your growing pains and what you go through day-to-day in your business.

Support is a huge part of success and positive outcomes.

If you’re ready to kill it this year you need to join my group NOW!

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Understanding YOU to CRUSH your DREAMS

I think this is the most important thing that we can do immediately that is free, and substantially helps us get to our goals faster.

What I mean by understanding yourself is to truly take time to evaluate where you currently are at in your life, and to compare and contrast that with where you want to go.

Some people wonder how you’re able to take inventory of your current situation, and I mean TRUE inventory, when most people won’t face the truth or are in denial about things that they struggle with. Most people lie to themselves, make excuses, and other things because it’s easier to just continue with what you are doing rather than to change. Stop that shit now!

Honestly the best way to get started understanding yourself is to ask yourself about the goals that you have and specifically ask if you have already achieved these goals?

If you have not (which honestly you shouldn’t have achieved these already because why else would you be here Reading this??) then it’s time to do some self inventory and ask yourself why you haven’t gotten there yet.??

What is stopping you from starting your journey on any one of your goals? Is it time? Is it resources? Is it money? Is it support? Is it excuses? Is it resistance? Is it improperly prioritizing what you’re doing everyday?

What is it that is holding you back?

Once you go through these and ask yourself that question on a deep level, and don’t give yourself some bullshit surface level answer you will be able to identify a first place to start to understanding yourself and therefore changing your habits and patterns but you’re stopping you from getting to your goals.

There are couple tests out there that I have personally used which help you to figure out what your learning Style is, how you interact with other people, the best way to work, the most efficient schedule set up, sleep schedule, what energizes you, what your true passions are, and over all will help you to get a deeper understanding of who you are and what you need every day to be happy.

The first test I’ve ever took was the Gallup strengths finder test, the second was five love languages, the last test I was able to take was a culture index, where I was able to see my results at the end.

These tests help me to see what I could do every day that would make me happy, how are you needed to be spoken to and cared for in every aspect of life- not just in a romantic relationship- that speaks to your soul and motivates you to work harder, and lastly taught me the type of management personality that would not work with me to help me reach my full potential- in that order.

Once I knew all these things about myself that I had never known before it opened up a whole new realm of thinking to myself every single day about the people that I interact with, the job that I have, anything that I pursue as far as new clients, who i surround myself with, interaction, really everything.  This realm of thinking is a daily practice where I remind myself or ask myself who am I surround myself with and what am I doing? If I’m not running myself with the people that are going to make me my best self I have had to train myself to have boundaries to cut off those who are not going to help me get better.

I have no shame anymore about telling people that I surround myself with people of means, with wealth, success, exotic cars, multiple businesses, yachts, happy families, people who vacation a lot, people who want to make over a million dollars per year, people who enjoy the finer things in life, and other similar things. You know it that’s what I want to become and you become the 5 people you surround yourself the most with. These are people who have already met my goals.

Now that I understand myself,  I know that I am a lifetime learner and just by being around these people I will be able to soak up information and reach the goals I have set myself up faster than if I try to screw around and figure it out myself.

Whenever somebody gives me a test or a self inventory or a way to get to know myself better, I’m always open to this. You never know what more you can learn about yourself. This can help you fine-tune your actions every day to give yourself the dream life you want.

I pay attention to mentors and people that I follow because it’s an opportunity to learn about other peoples experiences, mistakes, successes and anything else that can help me to make this life what I want faster than guessing by myself.

Now is the time to be fully accountable for who you are and what you need, to demand that from your life and other people you surround yourself with. If you want to meet your lifetime goals you’re not going to be able to do it alone. Without other people and support we are nothing.

I’m going to challenge you to take accountability for the dreams that you have not yet achieved. I’m going to challenge you to surround yourself with people who have a common goal. I’m going to challenge you to surround yourself with people that support you unconditionally.

I’m going to challenge you to join my group of elite efficient entrepreneurs, and start today getting the support you need to take yourself to a whole other level of success and happiness. I want entrepreneurs who are ready to make a change, kick their butt, and learn new things, in order to create their vision!! I don’t want people who want to make excuses I want those who want change now!

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Have you ever heard of this?

I’ll be honest with you I never heard of this until I dated a guy in 2015 who did this. What’s sad is that I judged him for this and I thought it was really goofy or hokey.

In reality after a meeting extremely successful people I realize that this is a habit that they have if not daily weekly. You have to visualize what it is that you want in order to see it happen reality.

It’s an interesting concept because people often talk about goals when it comes to new Year’s resolution or losing weight, but isn’t there more that you want out of life besides just losing weight for having won gold for an entire 12 months?

Why I say this is interesting as a concept because having goals and target is a widely accepted practice in our society yeah it’s not done often enough or consistently enough to see results most of the time.

Having a big goal for the year that you set at New Year’s is a great place to start if this all seems overwhelming because at least you’re getting in the practice to to start consistently meeting the goals set out. Once you have a big goal you should focus on breaking that down into steps and achieving that goal incrementally. So how do do you do this is you think like a rich person. What they do is think of a giant lofty goal and then they work backwards to get to that goal. Typically these people don’t know exactly how they’re going to reach their goals, but they have the vision in sight, and make sure to be consistent in letting people know where they’re headed. This energy expenditure leads to more of what you want coming your way whether you plans for it or not.

When you’re visualizing daily on dream board your goals that repetition put into your brain that not only is this what you want but you can see yourself already have it. This results in you excepting the reality of your future and focusing everything that you do towards getting there. I promise this will result in your goal being met.

And what I met before by incrementally looking at your goals is to break them down since you know your big picture item. All you have to do like rich people is work backwards. So how to do this you may ask is simple you think about what you need to do monthly to reach these goals (write these down in a spreadsheet per item), and then you simply look at weekly what you need to do to receive his goals, and then continue by daily knowing what you need to do to reach these goals.

And now at this point it becomes a plan instead of a lofty goal that seems impossible to attain.

I never believed in the power of visualization until I  realized that how I learn is primarily visual. So this is literally the most perfect way for me to attain my goals.

I want to share how powerful this practice is with my friends and people around me so that they two can see their success and attain it.

Like I said before I’m doing my friends a disservice if I’m not helping them to make their lives better just by spending time with me. Each time we spend time with me your goals visions success in all the things that you won’t become more and more clear therefore resulting in more and more people actually reaching the big picture goals.

*calling all like minded-goal driven entrepreneurs there is a Place for you to be able to surround yourself with those who are headed in the same direction.

Heres an opportunity to grow your business and to surround yourself with people you want to become.

I  have a private group filled with these people who bounce ideas off of each other and provide a safe place for you to discuss your growing pains and what you go through day-to -day in your business.

Support is a huge part of success and positive outcomes.

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For all of y’all who know me as thick or big boned big booty or whatever I just wanted to show you the me I was for ten-12 years of my life.. 
Got off adderal because it made me bland and too serious (bitchy) and killed my personality…. then after getting off I have gained weight slowly over the past 4 years despite my obsessive workouts and custom tailored nutrition (full genetic panel done on my genes- knew exactly to the gram what I needed)…$$$$$

I gave it a shot ALL of the “RIGHT” things. Sleep. Quitting alcohol. Eating PERFECT. Nothing worked for me as my genetics were catching up to me. 
I had enough.
In this new life I started to perfect a couple years ago I realized I needed to get serious and be extreme if I wanted IT ALL.


I had a gastric sleeve placed December 16th. It was the scariest thing I’ve ever done. I wanted HEALTH. I wanted ten years added to my life! And I’m almost there! Back to my comfortable place! 23 LBS down today!!!

YET I foolishly did it alone. 
This was because I haven’t found a worthy enough person/people to let into my life who I KNOW without shadow of doubt that would be there for me UNCONDITIONALLY.

A friend of mine put into my head “man I hope you find someone who will be there for you when you go through tough scary shit so you’re not being tough alone always”

And damn it he was right. I deserve that!
My soul deserves to be held by someone who will catch me when I fall.

I AM FINALLY open to true unconditional love and willing to learn how to give that to someone deserving. I have plenty of love and selflessness to give at this point after building myself.

So this year I seek balance in all I do.

IM HUSTLING MY ASS OFF for the money, Shit tons of it! I see it! and has already started to trickle in.!

MY family will finally be healed, and the positive, growing, supportive, loving, unjudgmental FIGHT for my BLOOD family will emerge this year- it already started last year meeting my biological father- who has stood by my side for every decision I have made moving forward. I have and will continue to give this to them because that’s what I WILL HAVE- I ALREADY HAVE IT!

The only area of my life which is lacking currently is spiritually. I am not someone to follow a crowd. I am a leader. I dont do well with being told how things are and will always be. I’m curious. I need growth and change to be happy. I grew up catholic and am not entirely sure how to grow this part of my life? Anyone have a test for how to be spiritual? Maybe I should visit eastern ways of thinking? Any input is welcome!

Point of this post is I WANT IT ALL. And I will listen to NO ONE who tells me I cant, won’t, don’t deserve it, or anything along those lines.


Yea we fall down and aren’t perfect but if you want more there is a way!

I HAVE SUCH A PASSION FOR LIFE! I want to be surrounded by those who are the same!

I HAVE MADE A GROUP FOR LIKE-minded individuals like this. 
It is called 
My “ elite efficient fam”



4 Years Ago

Before fancy dinner! My new friend Monique!

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Email techniques for the perfectionist-less stress TODAY!


settings (Upper right of Mac desktop)

Go to mail settings/notifications, and select notification settings you want. You can select the sound that you get on your computer for notifications, you can select how long the notifications will pop up for, and you can select how often in the day the notification pop-up.

I talk about methods to reduce stress because constant notifications on my phone, computer other devices drive me crazy. I can’t sit down and focus on the content that I need to be focussing on. I know I can’t be the only one so I thought that I would share way to help reduce stress.

Email thread-view by conversation-goes by subject. this helps to reduce the amount of emails to read through to find the content you need.

Flagging emails-movie tickets, flight itinerary, similar items so that you know where these items are when you’re looking quickly looking for  them




Name rule what you want. Then tell if/any/all contains/etc basically tell the mailbox what to do when you get this certain type of email.

For example I’m a realtor and I  get shit from booking a showing, and MLS all the time when a client has a showing. There is an email sent for each showing booked, when we need to send a review, and other items for EACH showing. THIS IS A LOT of unneeded email, until you show up and need the instructions of how to get into the property. For this example I made rules to send all of this senders emails to my “showings” folder/mailbox (what apple calls it).

that crazy ex…..

You can also set up emails from someone you no longer want to hear from to go immediately into your email trash.!! genius!! I’ve used this myself, and it works!

Vip folder-

Mark important people- click name in email-add to vip in email rules as covered above!

** I’m looking for the kickass entrepreneur inside you to join me in implementing solutions similar to these NOW! IF you’re ready to kick your unorganized scatterbrained self into alignment and organization then you need to message me NOW! I can help you have a clear picture of where your going, and what you need to get organized to get there. I’ll EVEN THROW IN AN HOUR OF FREE SERVICE FOR YOUR INQUIRY.